Oxballs Ergo

Good choice! I have super soft silicone plugs from SquarePeg and the Oxballs Ergo.

My gf likes her oxballs ergo for use during sex. It is soft enough that I can turn the base sideways and it feels the same for her. This leaves ample room for vaginal penetration without the base of the plug getting in the way.This would probably work the same with a squarepegs egg plug too.

Might want to check out the SquarePeg [Egg Plugs](http://www.squarepegtoys.com/egg-plug), Oxballs or, for a wider neck, the SquarePeg [Blunt SquarePeg actually have lots of other options too. They're all made of super soft, squishy silicone, which is incredibly comfortable, particularly for long-term wear, and each come in multiple sizes. If your looking for larger-sized, comfortable plugs, these are all good options.

My most comfortable ones are super soft silicone (Oxballs Ergo, SquarePeg Egg Plug, SquarePeg Happy Hour) and then there's the Njoy Pure Plug, which is the hard metal outlier but it's just so damn well designed! I understand BVibe's Snug Plugs are also great since they have a slim neck.

Another good option is the Oxballs Ergo, which I do have, and it's also pretty comfortable. I have the firm silicone, but they come in super soft, which would be more comfortable for long-term wear. Many sizes available. And finally, some folks swear by the Egg Plug from SquarePegToys.

Despite the Ergo having a kidney-shape, when I wear it, I can't really feel the difference between the two. Maybe I'm not particularly sensitive but they're just so squishy that they feel the same. The Oxballs Ergo has a marginally thinner neck relative to the bulb all things being equal, which may make it a teeny bit better for long term wear, but, really, there's not much in it at all. It's not a difference that I can notice during use given how soft they are.

- **Oxballs Ergo (Soft Blueballs - Peepshow Exclusive)** - Not sure of size here especially if the squish makes it feel smaller. 75% of the reason I want the soft is because of the color; if there is an extremely compelling reason for one of the super soft plugs I’m open to the idea. I’m fairly certain I don’t want the firm version.