Crave Vesper

Wedging a bullet between your labia could hold it in place though, or I had thought that the Crave Vesper would probably stay well on such anatomy. Or the strapless strap-on you mentioned, honestly the intercrural thing can get pretty close and intimate! Best positions for it are probably kind of like missionary but with the bottom's legs closed and upper thigh/perineum region lubed, or prone bone. For the top it can feel a lot like penetration, even though it's non-penetrative.

Gross enough that they won't mess with it, but not really sexual.) The Crave Vesper looks like jewelry. Plenty of bullet vibes are disguised as lipstick, and one or two as mascara. On the other side of things, for things that aren't quite sex toys but almost look like them (and are practically the same thing), Foreo face massagers are made by Lelo, and are basically just vibrators.

Also the Crave Vesper is like the smallest clit vibe that still gets good reviews, the steel version is $69 USD, dunno how that works out with conversion rate and all. See also, [budget bullet and [wand

I think it's more important to think about what stimulation she enjoys and work from there. For example, does she like highly focused stimulation or broad/grinding. If she likes the former, bullets are a good choice, if she likes the latter then larger toys are better. Assuming she likes focussed/pinpoint stimulation, the Crave Vesper Necklace is a discreet choice.